i say it everytime. ive lived through it, this is what i have learned in my previous relationships. i say this to all my friends when they seek advice and i say it to myself everytime. people that DONT value you. dont deserve SHIT from you. simple and true. why do would you want to give your all when the other person is giving u NOTHING! ok recently a friend of mine ( actually, 2 of them) are experiencing this and i tell both of them each and everytime that if u give urself in all the time, theyll just take you for granted. its ok to chase but sometimes u need for them to chase you back. it needs two to tango, give and take not give and give and then they take and take! dammit!
if theres one thing that my aunt taught me good and gave me a good advice its this: TOUGH LOVE. well this is mainly for those people who are IN lOVE but unappreciated and well somethign aint right. it worked on my ex gf. lol. but itll only work if the other person truly likes you. heres a run down of what im trying to say; be LESS available detach youself but still make sure that you show the other person u care and love them. ok this shit i had a hard time doing, coz when i like someone i LOVE showing it to them. so she lit. had to take my phone away so i dont even remotely try to show any form of flirtatious calls or texts LOl. e.g. when he/she texts you, dont reply at the same second. wait, 10-15 min. then reply back, be sweet and dont center ur dumbself to him/her. ( i did that with my 1st relatiionship xDD, puahaha and it didnt work). but make sure that when u do reply be sweet, caring etc. it worked on me, might work on u, who knows =).
"i believe that everything happens for a reason, people change so that you can learn to let go. things go wrong so you'll appreciate them when they're right. you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust noone but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together" -stolen from polly
coincidentally i saw this quote on my friend's page on facebook and it totally hit me. i just broke up with someone and i had trouble moving on it was my very first you were very special. but it didnt work out so all thats left is to move on forward but i found myself STUCK. y? coz im an idiot! lol i remember crying at work in the back laundry room when we broke up, i guess we were too immature and it was our first. anyways im over that. all credits to ms. polly clover for writing/posting this, im not sure if she made it hersef but idgaf lol i love this quote. and its definitely true. sometimes things fall apart, relationships end so that u can find someone better, sometimes bad things happen so ull appreciate the simple things that make u happy. you trust whole heartedly to a person that get blinded by the things around you. everything has a reason for happening but sometimes people get to engrossed with the negativity that they oversee the postive side to it coughcoughMEcoughcough but if u have friends and family to support you ull eventually be set back on track..this quote ties with the other quote that i like as well which i ll post next and is from polly still....
"Truth is everyones gonna hurt you. You just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." -Bob Marley
yep its true. in the end ull just hurt but dont you think its worth the hurt when u experienced the joy more than the actual pain? but the thing is..how DO you know when its all worth it? how does one decide which person will the ones worth the suffering? how can someone know for sure? i guess ull just have to take the risks right? after all life itself is a gamble, carpe diem baby!( i say carpe diem but sometimes i fail at this, ok fine MOSt of the time)
"Do not spoil what you have by desiring which you have not; but remember that what you have now was once among the things you only hoped for." --Epicurus
people tend to forget the simpler things once theyve gotten what they have. humans tend to be more greedy and want more and in turn u take what u have right now for granted. you lose sight. people's desire sometimes can consume them and lead them to self destruction, we need balance. hmm a certain perosn comes to mind whenever i see this quote. you desired some(thing) else while u were still in, should we say, involved with another one so in turn u loose both. you said you follow your heart but u forgot to put in mind the other person's heart just thought of urself. selfish. you thoguht u could have more but i guess u cant and in turn u lost both.HA lesson learned? i hope so.
"Patience is virtue"
i fail at patience. but it doesnt stop me from TRYING to be. but yea..im impatient LOL. if only i waited but im the type of person that cant and has to know it all the split second something happens to me wheteher a news, gossip or whatever.its a shame really.
------this only part of the quotes i wana share, currently i dont wana type anymore so whenever i encounter new ones that hold meaning to me..ill try to post it here. =)
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